Safety Dance

Okay so I'm not watching Donnie Darko right now... maybe tomorrow. I'm actually watching Season 1 of Glee currently. But okay. 2010 YEAR IN REVIEW!

January

After a bittersweet party, we rang in 2010 like the beast it was. I remember going back to RA training and as soon as school started, BOOM. My last semester started out crazy. I do remember making my first musical in college. Well, at college! Whorehouse was crazy busy, but I got to be an RA and an actor like I wanted. At the time, I thought I was moving to DC in the summer. Nope. Haha.

February

Whorehouse finally opened after a whirlwind four week rehearsal process. February was just a lot of Whorehouse and getting ready for SPRING BREAK. Yeah just a lot of being busy.

March

NEW YORK! I went to New York with Ashleigh Lamma, and it was the BEST TRIP EVER! So many personal memories and inside jokes/stories. next to normal was an amazing show, and the trip over all was fantastic. There was a fling at school, yeah it didn't work out. St. Patrick's Day... didn't work out. March started out great... but apparently I was very emotional during that month haha.

April

April marked the end of college for me. I was very nostalgic. I spent a lot of the time looking back on the past four years and high school as well. Finals week was rough... not going to lie. KDR Formal was the best EVER! Retreat... didn't work out haha. School ended... it was my last Spring Fest. April was a mess of a month because it was all over.

May

GRADUATION! May was probably the most boring month EVER. Summer RA left a lot of time to do things. We went to the beach a lot. I watched and bitched about Glee a lot, haha. Yeah. May was uneventful.

June

Now June... June, I quit Summer RA and moved back to Richmond. I started one of the STUPIDEST jobs ever. I was pretty lost. June was definitely not a good month. Lots of drama.

July

I visited CNU for the 4th of July. I continued working at my lame job. I applied for Barksdale. I started Pippin.

August

Okay, this month was a little more exciting than June and July. I moved into my new house. I LOVE IT. It's had ups and downs, but mostly it's been great. I also got the job with Barksdale. Peace out, stupid Mondial job. I saw my lover Adam Lambert in concert. I visited CNU again on my bday weekend. Pippin was my life, and I loved it.

September

The Barksdale job started. Pippin was running. I made the lead in the next show at Fort Lee, The Boy Friend. September was a good month, nothing too exciting.

October

I started the part of my job I hate... House Managing. Shipwrecked! wasn't too bad. It was 90 minutes. HALLOWEEN was sick. It was Homecoming and Halloween weekend at the same time, so you know debauchery was going on left and right. I loved every minute of that weekend.

November

The Boy Friend was running, and the bane of my existence since November 19th opened... White Christmas. It's ending soon, and I could cry tears of joy. Thanksgiving was okay! I got to see Justin, Lisa and Jake! Hooray!

December

December was a little more blah. I needed a break, but now that I'm not in school... no break. White Christmas is killing me. I have no time to make personal relationships with anyone, and a lot of my friendships suffer. Christmas was pretty great, though. NEW YEARS EVE WAS THE BEST IT HAS EVER BEEN.

So yeah, this year kind of trailed off at the end into blah. I just work all the time, really. I don't want to discuss that every single time. BUT WHITE CHRISTMAS ENDS ON SUNDAY. Best day ever. I'm so over it. :D Happy 2011!

Marry You

I looked at the description of my blog to the side, and I realized I wanted to talk about being an intern. Okay, I know you've heard me bitch about how much I work, so I won't be talking about that the whole time. I want to talk about my experiences so far.

For those of you who do not know (comment if you read this), I am the Theater Administration/House Management Intern for Barksdale Theatre and TheatreIV in Richmond. I've been to Barksdale/TIV shows since I was a kid, and I've worked with Barksdale a few times over the years. To be on staff is pretty much awesome. I like being able to say I work for the biggest professional theater in Central VA (Barksdale), the largest children's theater in Virginia and the 2nd largest children's theater in the country (TIV). Yeah, we're kind of a big deal, haha. SO what do I do? One part of my job is office support. I help out in our administrative office in all departments who need help. I'm kind of like the administrative assistant, but I take on projects from all different departments. It's been pretty awesome to learn about different aspects of a nonprofit theater company and what makes it tick. This is my favorite part of the job... I wish this was my only job (which is the original job for which I applied).

The other aspect is House Managing. On the plus side, I get to schedule House Managers for TheatreIV and Barksdale at Hanover Tavern, so having a staff under me is kind of cool. I get to see/hear the shows and meet a lot of cool people. Well, that's about it. Otherwise I have to deal with people. I hate dealing with people. I have very little patience. Haha. Also I clean the theater. I'm not a janitor, nor did I apply for a janitorial job. This part of the job is complete and utter b/s. After this internship, you can bet I'm not going to do this part of the job again unless I get paid a lot more money. I need to be in shows, and it hinders me from auditioning for anything. That's ridiculous and NOT for what I applied.

I think everyone should have an internship, but only once. If I had to be an intern again, I think I'd go crazy. It's a really great opportunity my first year outside of college, but after this year... I'm done. I can't make zero money for working a salaried job. I'm all for working hard on shows and at work... but the money needs to match the work next time, at least a little bit. But I LOVE working for a theater company. I was afraid I'd be stuck answering phones all year. I love working for this company, too. I don't think I could have been hired by a better place. :D

So that's a brief look into internship land. Tomorrow I'm going to start my 2010 Year in Review. If you haven't seen my previous years in review, I go month by month saying the big things that happened while I watch Donnie Darko... weird, I know. Haha.

Last Christmas

Merry Christmas! Tidings of comfort and joy, y'all. I'm channeling my best Britney Spears. I hope everyone is having a wonderful holiday!

It feels like I've been witnessing and hearing Christmas since November 19th when White Christmas opened, and I'll admit... I was pretty anti-Christmas for a while there. Every time I hear the song "White Christmas" on the radio, I've literally screamed out loud and changed the station. But Thursday night as Carolyn was leaving, I wished her a merry Christmas. That moment officially felt like Christmas. Then shopping on Christmas Eve definitely made it feel like Christmas :D THEN drinking at a bar made it feel like college, but Christmas at the same time. For some reason, I'm also always the first one up on Christmas morning. It's been the same since I was very little. I remember running around the house, being very quiet at about 6AM, looking at all the presents that weren't there from the night before, and going back to bed for a few hours. Then I'd wake up again, wake everyone else up in the house and we'd rip open presents. Well... that's how it happened today, haha.

I do feel very blessed for what I've been given. I pretty much am Gleeked and Charlie Browned out. I got GLEE Vol. 4 CD and unfortunately the dumbass at FYE told my mother Season 1 Volume 1 was the entire season of GLEE... so my mom bought that for me and got really upset when I told her it wasn't right/I already had it. I felt terrible because she felt bad. I guess I shouldn't have made it a big deal... I'll just exchange/sell it and buy the COMPLETE season one. I also got a GLEE wall calendar. Yessss. As for Charlie Brown, I got a place mat, a salt and pepper shaker set, and a Charlie Brown that shivers and plays "Linus and Lucy." I also got new running shoes, some shower stuff, clippers for my hair/face/body (yessss), and some teeth whiting stuff. Haha I'm stoked.

But Christmas is more than just presents. Christmas means family... fighting with them, running from them, throwing things at them, just enjoying the company. My family usually does this: after presents, my sister will run to sleep or out the door. Dad will go smoke in his room. Mom will take a nap. Grandma will cook dinner. I'll sit in the rec room on my laptop watching a movie. This year... yeah that's what happened, haha. I'm watching the Star Wars marathon right now, followed by Easy A and Death at a Funeral. Great success!

If anyone's reading this, please share how your Christmas went! :D

Were the World Mine

There's this silly little homo movie called "Were the World Mine." It's based around the play "A Midsummer Night's Dream" by the Bard. They do the play in the movie, and the lead character (Timothy) also takes the part of Punk into his reality. He's a queer kid who makes the straights fall in love, including the star rugby player for whom he has eyes. It's a silly musical romantic comedy, hence why I'm watching it, three glasses of wine deep into the movie.

I may be a little tipsy, but this movie, embarrassingly enough, really speaks to me. I think it's mostly due to the Shakespeare aspect, but anyways... they repeatedly play with the theme of love and falling in love. Timothy asks his friend Frankie (a female, haha) this simple yet highly complex question:

If you could make someone love you... would you?

Well? I think it's a question we ask ourselves all the time, whether you want to admit it or not. When you have feelings for someone, of course you want them to feel the same way. If you've never read/seen Shakespeare's play, the specific part the movie focuses on is the fairy Puck and his flower that spews Cupid's Love Juice. When Puck sprays a mortal with the potion, they fall in love with the first creature they see. This is why we ask ourselves that bold question above. If you could make someone love you, would you? It's complicated. What happens when free will is null and void for our own personal gain? I think about this every time I watch this movie. Of course I want someone to love me. Hell, I'd even go as far to make someone through magic. But I realize in the end, especially because of this movie/the Shakespeare play, that you can't force these things to happen, and you can't sit there screaming internally at someone to get them to love you. *SPOILERS from here on out* I would love it if this movie ended with Timothy ending up alone, dealing with his loneliness and not trying to force a hot rugby player to love him. Instead... the rugby player has loved him all along. They end up happy (as happy as high schoolers can be), and I end up completely in shambles. When I first saw this movie, I remember being completely let down when the hot rugby guy went up and kissed Timothy. I wanted a bitter ending. Of course, it wasn't bitter but sweet instead. I just spent two hours and three glasses of wine singing and crying. I'm such an idiot for letting this get to me. Such an idiot. For years, I've talked with my best friend Jackie about my love life versus her love life. She's always just said I'm young... I'll find someone... while she's dated someone every time I go through this break down. I'm almost 23, I don't feel like I have anything to show for being 23. I'm so let down with myself. The only relationship I had was when I was 15-17, and it was hell. It was too advanced for someone my age (i.e. significant other had too many drug problems with which for me to deal).

I always compare myself to Charlie Brown and Charlie from Perks of Being a Wallflower. It just dawned on me that Charlie is just CB in high school. Wow. Why have I never made that connection before? And it's all a fictionalized representation of my life to which I have attributed. I find solace in comparing myself to fictional characters. So far, my collection is:

- Mark from Rent

- Charlie Brown

- Charlie from Perks

- Michael from Queer as Folk

- I was Jane from Sweetest Thing but I've been promoted to Christina

Okay this is by far the stupidest entry I've ever submitted. I'm sorry for giving you a reason to never be my friend again, haha. I've always felt alone, and I feel the most alone when there are a bunch of people surrounding me, strangely enough. Cliche enough, too haha. Okay I should go. This is the wine talking... and by "wine" I mean me. I'm so dumb, no wonder I'm single.

Snow

Hello blogosphere! I'm sorry I've neglected my blog for about ten days. I've been doing a 30 Day Challenge on tumblr, so I've kind of forgotten. My apologizes.

Well, let's see, my life over the past few months has been CRAZY! I've been working nonstop for Barksdale and TheatreIV. It's been a lot of work, but I really enjoy it. I'm hoping it'll pay off in the end with good connections and a fantastic experience. I also started bartending at the childrens' show (which is more of selling cupcakes and juice boxes). So I get to see a lot of people throughout my day. I was going to do the Things Remembered ordeal again this year... but I decided against it. I don't have enough time to focus on two jobs through my full time company in addition to a part time that I didn't even like. Yeah, sure, money. Money's always an issue, though. So I can't spend the greater part of my day working. I need to actually, you know, have a life? Run errands? Normal human things. No big deal.

I've been thinking a lot about next year. I spend a lot of my time thinking about the next year instead of the current moment, but I digress. Last year I remember at this time thinking about my options. I was pretty clueless, though. I went through a grad school rush, thinking I could get it done in a month, but it didn't work out. I thought about moving back to Richmond... which is eventually what happened. I think mostly I thought I was going to be in Pennsylvania working for KDR. That's what should have happened, but oh well. It's not like I didn't qualify or even wasn't selected for the position... they just couldn't afford to bring me on, which was highly disappointing. Then at some point the idea of being a University Fellow at school came up... and although I was completely robbed for that job and would have done a lot better than the people they hired, I'm glad I'm not stuck at CNU thinking I'm glorious when I'm not. So I fell back on my safety plan.

This year the options are as follows:

1 - Grad School: I applied to University of Michigan for their Higher Ed program. I'd love to go here and live in Ann Arbor. It's a nice artsy town, and the school is wonderful. It's been a dream of mine to go there for about five years now. So who knows. Hopefully it can come true?

2 - Richmond: I mean, I could always stay here. My lease ends in August, and I'm planning on moving. I can either end up with the folks, my friend Daniel, anyone who wants to move to Richmond, or whatever. Maybe my internship can turn into a full time position of some sort at Barksdale (but I'll need to be able to be in shows or I won't accept it). We'll see.

3 - Different City: If all else fails, I can just move to another city and start anew. I've thought about DC. That's as far as I've thought so far, haha.

I'll keep everyone posted on what's going on. I'd love to end up out of Virginia next year, but I also need to get some professional show credit under my belt before I move on. We'll see.

Valerie

So I have nothing to discuss right now other than things that I always discuss... like my really stressed out life. I'm watching "1 Girl 5 Gays" right now on Logo... so I'm going to answer their questions. Warning: some of this are kind of graphic. The show's tag line is "20 Questions about Love and Sex" so yeah... they talk about sex a lot. Some are just dumb. I love this show. I'm also going to give the real question but tweak them to my own life.

20 - What's the most disgusting pornographic image you've seen?

Someone made me watch 2 Girls 1 Cup... thankfully I missed 1 Guy 1 Jar and Church of Fudge..

19 - If your heart had a voice, who would it sound like?

Hmm. I'd probably have to say Eva Cassidy. Her voice is lovely and haunting... like my life. Haha.

18 - At your wedding, what song would you play for the mother/son dance?

I've already decided it'll be something by Rob Thomas or Matchbox Twenty. "Cradle Song" most likely.

17 - Can you remember a specific orgasm?

Yes. I'm not going to be graphic and go into it, haha.

16 - If the person on your left was a magazine, what magazine would he be?

I'll choose my roommate since no one is to my left. Kelly would probably be a Rocky Horror fan magazine. She's quirky like that.

15 - Describe the last time you were shocked?

The episode of GLEE where the bully kissed Kurt shocked the hell out of me.

14 - If you posted a singles ad, what would your ad say?

Well currently one of my singles ads' headline is "Okay I Get It, Let Me Think, I Guess It's My Turn." If I were to post a serious one, though, it'd probably be about what I'm looking for in a significant other. I don't know. I'm bad at these things.

13 - Who would you do: Ann Coulter or Dr. Laura?

Ugh jeez, Dr. Laura.

12 - Fill in the Blank: No one has made me laugh harder than ___

Probably my sister. I can't remember exact topics, but I remember rolling on the floor crying a lot after talking to her.

11 - What was the last text you regretted sending?

Gosh, I send a lot of texts I regret, but there's nothing too specific I can remember.

10 - How does what you thought sex was, compare to what it is?

Sex seems to never be what people think. I was definitely hoping for something a little more emotional and connected. I was dating the person at the time, but it had only been for a few weeks. I mean I loved this person, but sex was kind of a let down because after there was no connection. Most of the time he would have to leave or I would have to leave.

9 - If everyone on the panel had a sex tape, whose would you want to watch?

Hmm so I'll just say out of my friends. Honestly, I wouldn't want to see any of my friends' sex tapes... I don't want to picture my friends having sex. Awkward.

8 - What is the most painful thing that has ever happened to you?

Physically, probably getting hit in the testicles with a golf ball in my back yard as a kid. That pain is the worst.

Mentally/Emotionally, probably an episode I had with an individual my junior year. Things were going pretty well, I thought we would end up together, but I was just thrown away like the trash. I felt used, and I was left bitter and jaded. I've been screwed up when it comes to love for a while, and that didn't help it any.

7 - Of the guys that have appeared on this show, who do you think is the bravest?

Again, I'll pick from my friends. I would have to saw Andrew. I know his doubts and insecurities, but I always see him taking initiative and get so inspired. He isn't afraid to talk about his past, and I have always held him in the highest esteem.

6 - Who would you do: Chris Martin or Brandon Flowers?

Brandon Flowers

5 - At what age were you your ugliest?

Jeez. I'd probably have to say however old I was in 7th grade. My nose always looked huge, I used gel in my hair and wore stupid clothes. I had bad skin and no tan. Middle school was just bad.

4 - If you could make your penis bigger, would you?

Simple answer: yes.

3 - Describe the eyes of the person on your right.

This is hard to do since no one is to my right... and I can't just pick someone randomly.

2 - Have you ever seen your parents cry?

I've heard my mother cry. My parents got into a really bad fight once when I was in high school. It was so bad my dad left and went to Michigan for two weeks. I heard my mom cry as they fought and after he left. We thought he was gone for good. My mom is really strong, but she broke down.

1 - Close your eyes and describe the perfect date.

Maymont or something outside. I'd love to walk around a park like Maymont or Central Park. Then we'd go to some trendy cafe for lunch. We'd take in a movie either at a theater or one of our houses. Then we'd cuddle by the fire as it snowed outside.

Okay great. Love that show :)